One of the complaints that i hear is counselling relationship is they dont know what to do to make it more better.I also believe that most of the couples in a commmited relationship want to make it work.They remember times when things were good n there were happy and they want it back.One of the major is communication and how they talk with each other.Communication has been addressed before in this forum and will be again in another time.My personal belief and i find that it is reenforced continually, is that every thing makes a relationship will work and be sucess is a learned behavior.
Another problem today with the prevalence of more than one relaonship.Most people have at least one serious relationship before they find their dream match.Every body is unique and special individual and they need unique and special care.So how to fix relationship?Firstly they have to learn everything about their patner.An examples a very close friend whom known forever, when he and his wife were much younger.My friend was on the way home and he stopped at nearby supermarket and he was noticed that roses on sale.The roses was mixed with many colour like yellow and red.The roses look very frangrant and he loves his wife very much so he brought her a dozen of roses.Her wife was very happy when see the roses and thanked her husband.
Besides that, u want ur partner to be looking to ur direction, if they are not looking at u and kindly ask them to.Furthermore, you must gently hold their face and turned it toward to u.This situation best to only do this if ur both in a glad mood.Avoid being aggressive,scream,pointing and abush isn"t going to get what u want.An examples, u never do any house work.I am alway cleaning up after u, i am sick of it, go and do the house work now! This kind of talk will just cause u and ur patner will break up ur relationship.
More over, don be too passive.An examples, honey do u think you might sometimes be able to do the housework when u are ready.This is tooo indrect.If u have number of things u would like to tell ur patner and dont think they quite got everything, just ask them to repeat it back so u can confirm u have been heard correctly. This scene can be seen as annoying but they to have to understand what u asking and this all comes back strengthening ur communication.
"LIFE IS NEVER AS LONG AS WE WANT IT TO BE, AND WASTED TIME CANNOT BE RECOVERED"
Besides that, u want ur partner to be looking to ur direction, if they are not looking at u and kindly ask them to.Furthermore, you must gently hold their face and turned it toward to u.This situation best to only do this if ur both in a glad mood.Avoid being aggressive,scream,pointing and abush isn"t going to get what u want.An examples, u never do any house work.I am alway cleaning up after u, i am sick of it, go and do the house work now! This kind of talk will just cause u and ur patner will break up ur relationship.
More over, don be too passive.An examples, honey do u think you might sometimes be able to do the housework when u are ready.This is tooo indrect.If u have number of things u would like to tell ur patner and dont think they quite got everything, just ask them to repeat it back so u can confirm u have been heard correctly. This scene can be seen as annoying but they to have to understand what u asking and this all comes back strengthening ur communication.
"LIFE IS NEVER AS LONG AS WE WANT IT TO BE, AND WASTED TIME CANNOT BE RECOVERED"
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